So if you've ever taken any of my courses you'll know that I don't like wasting time in this video we're
just going to jump right in both the course because what I would like to share with you in this video
is some of the core foundational beliefs that I have based my practice on over the last eight to 10
years.
No.
It's important that we do have some core foundational beliefs because this is pretty much what gives
us the guidelines of which we all ultimately go want to adhere to.
First and foremost beliefs must be the guidelines that we actually live by.
Because if we're talking about life coaching were we were actually talking about here is leading people
living people in a certain direction in life.
And the most effective way to lead people is by example.
So what I want to share with you here are some some core beliefs or some presuppositions are the foundations
that we really want to spend some time considering in view of building into the context of our own lives.
If we haven't already done so so that we can then in turn pass and share these beliefs on through the
way in which we live.
Over onto other people.
If you're with me if that makes sense.
So the first thing I would like to mention and please bear in mind.
All right.
I'm just going to throw some bullet points here and just leave you hanging in right.
This is just more of an introduction.
Right.
You're going to understand what all of this means and a lot more detail as we continue to work throughout
the course.
This is more just a quick introduction to to where it is a were heading right and the first core belief
this is this is crucial.
There are ice if we're thinking about life coaching or enhancing the quality of our relationships with
anyone in any way.
It's absolutely crucial that we become affective around other people.
So this number one core belief is is a real big one.
And this is that there's no such thing as a bad intention.
If I was to ask you a question right now.
Right.
Have you ever woken up in the morning and said to yourself something along the lines of today you know
I would just love to get myself out there and really offend some people or I would just like to get
out there and make a huge mistake you know waste some money really upset someone I'd like to lose my
job just completely screw my life up.
Well the answer most likely is No.
No one ever says that no one ever intends for these things to happen.
But yes if you want to become a life coach guess who is going to be coming to you.
That's right.
People who've made some mistakes and many people who have completely screwed their life's up.
So it's important for us to understand that although some people would do some crazy and ridiculous
things in life some things that we may never even necessarily understand.
It's important for us to turn to except that there's no such thing as about intention because you see
if we're talking about life coaching we're talking about building relationships and all relationships
are built in based upon trust.
Trust is developed over a process of time.
And the only way that you could ever judge another human being is through incorrectly judging or making
a false assumption about their intentions.
So as a life coach it's crucial that you know our number one priority are all times is preserving the
trust and the relationship.
And this is absolute gold for you.
In the context of your day to day relationships as well.
Right.
There's no such thing as a intention.
BRAZILE I've caught the rawle that you're going to be vested into and what it is that you're going to
be taking responsibility for is establishing what the intentions were.
Because once you understand what a tech what someone's attention is where it doesn't really matter what
they've done.
Guess what.
You come to better understand the person.
So really you know what you're actually becoming Here is more of a detective and intentions detective
like Sherlock Holmes we're what you're looking to discover is what people's intentions are when they
do the things they do and when they've done the things that they've done.
Because if you understand the person's attention guess what you naturally want to understand the person.
So again I'm going to be sure of this a lot more detail later on throughout the course.
But the second core belief that I'm going to urge you to build into your life is that the past doesn't
equal the future.
Please allow me to quickly explain what I mean by this in my life.
What is it that holds most people back.
What is it that prevents people from really pursuing the things that they want to pursue in life from
you know fulfilling their goals and achieving their dreams and all that sort of thing.
What is it that prevents people from asking that dream guy or asking to dream girl or taken that risk
or building that business.
People are scared.
I fear we are.
And if you think about it.
What is fear we are how is it you personally.
And I'm asking you here how is it that you would ever know that.
Failure is about saying unless you feel something in some way at some point in the past.
What I'm seeing here is that in life we are facing every single decision that we make upon outcomes
that we've already experienced based on some of the decisions that were made at some point in the past.
And here's the thing.
When people believe that the past equals the future people expect that they're going to experience more
in the future of what they've already heard in the past than if someone's experience a lot of fear we
are all rejection in the past they're going to be less likely to pursue the goals and bigger things
and dreams and visions or into the future.
So as life coach has what we're actually helping people to do is manage their internal processes and
realize that you know yesterday is history tomorrow is an absolute mystery.
And today is a gaffe.
And it be my very last year.
For what reason could we otherwise possibly half for not take risks get ourselves out there and do the
things that we fundamentally want to do in life because if we're not doing these things we're going
to remain stuck in a good round and round in circles like most other people over there.
Which ends in complete unfulfilment.
And as a minute a meaningless way of living life.
And this is really why people are going to come to your for life coaching because they fundamentally
find themselves in a rut that they don't know how to get out of.
So if the past doesn't equal the future kind of leads us nicely onto the next core belief that I would
like to share with you.
And this is that no one is broken.
No this is something that I want to mention right now at this stage of the course I do appreciate this.
Only the second video.
And if you've got your learning Lord write this one down because this is crucial.
There is no way in the world of personal development of self improvement.
There are people out there who like to make themselves out to be gurus.
You know the mystical magical workers who can mystically heal people's bodies souls minds all sorts
of things through their.
As Or right.
You know people who can kick their fingers do ahead not take something and make someone's life time
is stuttering go away just to be clear here.
We're not talking about magic.
We're talking about really rational practical ways of helping people through problems and how we're
going to be able to to be really objective.
And our approach to this is if we accept the fact that no one is broken.
No.
The problem the are going to come across and be faced with is that many people believe that there are
many people over there believe that they're victims they're broken they're damaged the not good enough
in some way and all of these things are what we're going to refer to as being the limiting beliefs of
land at some point in the past that they're projecting on to their expectations of the future.
And this is what holds people back and prevents them from doing the things that they really want to
do.
So if we assume that no one is broken then that means it could only really be a work role as life coach
is to help people fully understand and accept just how unbroken they are actually are.
If you think about it you know if we assume and accept that we're completely on Brooke in fact we are
whole were full and that means that there's potentially nothing that we can go on to achieve and accomplish
in our future which therefore only just nicely on to the core beliefs of before.
And this is that everything is achievable.
Now as you watch this right now you may believe that everything isn't achievable.
In which case you're already going to be disagreeing with me.
And if that's the case then you're not going to be able to offer anyone else much hope or inspiration
for for it for our lives better than what they've already previously hard no.
What I would like to say here is that whilst everything is achievable it might not always be achievable
today.
Right.
What I'm going to say here is that if you think about it we're all brought into this world as babies.
Little bambinos clean slates.
Now I don't know about you.
When I was a little baby and you know the first day I popped out I didn't look at mom dad and say gee
Hi mom.
Hi Dad.
Thanks for having me.
Thanks for squeezing me out them.
Must have been quite a traumatic experience for you.
I didn't say these things because I hadn't yet learned how to speak.
I hadn't yet gone through the process of language acquisition.
No.
You see in the same way that we learn to speak and life relearn to do things.
And if you think about 40 or 50 years ago a couple of men jumped in a space ship and went up to the
moon.
But you know 10 20 years before that people would have said that's completely impossible.
No we're going to go to the moon or seiners as a human race.
Technology and science is evolving as such a phenomenal race.
There's nothing that tall that isn't achievable for us as human beings.
Why.
Because we're all innately.
It of the only thing that's ever gonna prevent us hold us back from achieving anything in life is the
beliefs that we've developed about herself.
At some point in the past that tells us that we fundamentally can't you see.
There's a lot of video.
I'm going to share with you later on in the course it's going to illustrate this point so that you come
into full agreement with me if you think about it.
We all have the ability to do all things all of the time.
If we saw choose and if we really want to do these things the only thing that's preventing you from
getting there and is successfully achieving anything that you want to achieve in life is the appropriate
strategy.
But once you have a strategy or a plan in place for doing whatever it is you want to do there's nothing
else other than hard work time and effort.
There's going to prevent you from getting there and doing it.
So if for example you want to go want to become a successful World renowned A life coach then there's
nothing stopping you.
This is completely achievable and through this course I'm going to share with you absolutely everything
that I have.
This is going to help you to be as effective as what you possibly can be and make and progress towards
getting there someone to give you and help you know as much as I possibly can.
And this brings us last.
And finally on to the last of the five core beliefs that are one to share with you at this stage of
the course.
Incidentally we are who we believe we are and the greatest limitations in aware life are there limitations
that we believe we have when people come to you for life coaching for help for guidance for wisdom for
counselling for support or for help.
Many people have already established a goal and believe on some level that they're broken.
What it would like to share with you here personally is that empowerment comes in via taken full responsibility
for your life.
No.
Over the years I've heard many clients come to me.
Ramsay.
I would like to book some wife coaching sessions and had some ladies and some gentlemen.
You know I live just north of Edinburgh here in Scotland.
I don't know whereabouts in the world you live and Scotland were a we're a funny breed of people in
Scotland or in Fife where I live.
You've got men.
The men are manly.
Are Made a strongly strong and manly men.
And then the woman in some instances are even manlier.
What kind of mixed up angry race and a bit of people.
But what I see through society is a real unwillingness to assume responsibility for for for life.
For example for example if you were to stand in some of the town centres on a Thursday afternoon you're
going to see big long queues outside the door office where people are signing on to get their job seekers
benefits or these sorts of things.
Now I'm not dissing anyone's circumstances or situations in life but what I am seeing is many people
live completely disempowered lives because they haven't yet taken full responsibility for their lifes.
I think about it.
If no one's broken then that also means that there are no victims in life.
No.
Don't get me wrong.
Sometimes bad things happen to good people but there's nothing we can do about that.
Think about it.
I can't control all the things that other people say or do to me.
And you can't control the things that other people say or do to you.
But we can't control and come in complete charge of how it is that we choose to respond to those things
and to those people if we choose to we're the victim heart then we're going to feel hard done by and
end up living in a completely disempowered way.
But if we say okay sometimes bad things happen then we don't have to let these things crush us.
We can actually take them off our shoulders put them on the floor stand on them and use them as a foundation
of which we can build and base the rest of our lives upon.
What we're talking about here is living our lives in a way where we're no longer crushed by the things
that happen to us all by the things that people say or through the way in which other people treat us.
But we actually just bounce off that stuff our stuff becomes water off a duck's back where we are developing
the sense of and our resilience where it doesn't really matter what happens to us in life because we
become completely consistent in the way in which we respond to these things.
No I've pretty much just said all of this in one breath.
Haha see if you can do it that one.
But this is really important stuff.
I want to give you a real general overview here on the direction in which we're going to be headed through
the course.
Yes I'm going to be sharing with you some theory some techniques some models some practices.
That's going to be quite a lot of work books and things for you to really get your teeth into.
There's going to be a lot of stuff throughout this course that I'm going to ask you to seriously reflect
on and apply in the context.
Your own life because if you wouldn't reflect on this stuff and apply it in the context of your life
then you're never going to be in an influential position where you could lead other people to follow
you.
So these are the core beliefs that I build into my life.
The other the core beliefs that I pretty much older and base my life on.
I've shared them with you.
I'm going to encourage you to take note of them.
And before skipping on to the next video take five to 10 minutes to consider how these core beliefs
might work themselves in the context of your life.
So yeah that's all fine and I'll look for a senior.
And the next clip.